Kamal Agarwal

When I first met Ruchi in September 2019, I had no idea that just two months later, on my birthday, a simple moment would spark something beautiful between us. A friend from Ethiopia, Hanna, along with a group of girls, came to wish me. Someone captured a short video of me bowing in gratitude, and I later shared it on my WhatsApp status. That very video led Ruchi to start a conversation with me, and as Zakir Khan puts it, " Kuch hi dino me ab Chat se Chatten ho rahi hain." At the time, I was in an unyielding and stagnant relationship with Jhalak. After mutual understanding, we decided to part ways, making space for new beginnings. Dating Ruchi was different—she is older than me, which added a playful dynamic to our bond. In disagreements, I’d say, “You’re older, show some maturity,” while in other moments, I’d assert, “Let me handle this, I have more life experience.” It became a balance of fun and responsibility. Why Relationships Struggle Today A thought crossed my mind—why...

Being human is a fascinating experience. We all know that life is temporary, and embracing harmony is the best way to live peacefully. My personal philosophy for life is simple: I strive to add value to any group I am a part of—our society. But even if I cannot contribute positively, I make sure not to become a liability. By following this principle, I ensure that I live without unnecessary bondage and do not interfere with others' ways of life. In return, I expect the same courtesy. As the old wisdom goes: Treat others the way you wish to be treated. What Happened Yesterday A girl who was once friends with my girlfriend messaged me, asking about her well-being. I found it inappropriate—if they were still friends, she could reach out directly. If not, why was she inquiring about her personal life, especially her mental health? Moreover, she wasn’t a friend of mine either. This wasn’t the first time. She had reached out twice before with similar concerns, and this time, I decided to...

According to the Buddha, an admirable friendship (Kalyāṇa-mittatā) is one of the most important factors in leading a meaningful and wholesome life. It is not just a part of the spiritual journey but the whole of it. True friendship is built on mutual respect, kindness, and the ability to help one another grow, both in worldly life and on the path of Dhamma. Qualities of an Admirable Friend In the Sigālaka Sutta (DN 31), the Buddha describes four types of good friends: The Helper (Upakāra-mitta) – The one who supports you in times of difficulty. The Steadfast Friend (Sama-sukha-dukkha-mitta) – The one who stands by you in both joy and sorrow. The Guide (Atthakkhāyī-mitta) – The one who advises you wisely and warns you against unwholesome actions. The Compassionate Friend (Anukampaka-mitta) – The one who deeply understands you and encourages your growth. A true friendship goes beyond fleeting emotions and is tested through challenges, differences, and even conflicts. During su...

In the heyday of my digital presence, I was known as the go-to guru for all things tech and gadgets. My virtual playground was a hub of innovation, filled with late-night readings, gadget reviews, and heartfelt poetry that resonated with readers across the nation. Life took an unexpected turn in 2018 when a health crisis struck, shifting my priorities in profound ways. Suddenly, every moment became precious, and I fought relentlessly to preserve them. Amidst this struggle, my vibrant online presence slowly slipped away, overshadowed by the urgency of the present. Yet, emerging from the turmoil, I found a renewed sense of purpose. Serving at Dhammathali Vipassana Centre, Jaipur , for over six years, I discovered the joy of service and encountered wonderful people. Life changed in many ways, which I'll share in upcoming posts. Now, it's time to move on, and I am eager to reclaim my digital footprint and rediscover the world I once knew online. It hasn't been easy. The digital...